Encourage playfulness

#6

Allow your child to explore, experiment, and be silly with a focus on learning.

Decades of developmental research — from Piaget’s work on cognitive stages to Vygotsky’s insight that play is how children operate in their “zone of proximal development” — confirms that play isn’t a break from learning. It is learning. Through play, children practice social negotiation, test hypotheses, process emotions, and develop executive function. The sillier and more imaginative, the better — pretend play is particularly powerful for developing theory of mind and emotional regulation.

Supporting Values

This principle helps cultivate these core values in your family:

Practical Examples

  • Join in their silly games and imaginative play
  • Encourage experimentation and creative problem-solving
  • Celebrate mistakes as learning opportunities